Christian dating and physical intimacy
Church attendance does not prove that a person is a Christian.
Furthermore, professing to be a Christian does not guarantee relational maturity or a willingness to love sacrificially. Many singles with bad intentions purposely hide out in Christian groups to take advantage of the unsuspecting (Romans -18).
It is one of the few locations where singles with possibly the same beliefs and interests as yours regularly gather.
Essentially, all you have to do is show up, become involved, and get to know people.
If the singles group at your present church becomes stagnant, visit another church.
Keep in mind, however, that no one proven way exists to find a good person to date.
A large church can be especially helpful if it has a singles ministry.
If you attend a church that doesn’t have a singles group, ask whether it has other activities, such as singles Bible studies, monthly socials, or retreats.
As we discussed in the previous chapter, you do not want to settle for just anybody.
You want to find someone who completely captivates your heart.