Rules of dating guys playing it cool
When you over-text a person you like, it is like giving them TMI, or talking to the point of giving someone a headache.
We don’t know who created it or when, but it’s a universal truth; a biblical commandment; a 3-strikes you’re out law. What I’m referring to here is the texting pattern that was developed PRIOR to the first date. Someone who makes me feel he has things under control.
If you are going to send along something you saw that was funny, make sure to include a caption that indicates you are expecting some sort of answer like “what do you think?
” That way, they know that you are looking for a response.
You know what is right even if you don’t want to accept it. If you text late at night when you’re not sure if they are going to get it that day or the day after, then you are setting it up so that they aren’t going to text you back right away. Sometimes you forget, and it keeps getting pushed back, and, before you know it, days have gone by.
If you want to increase the likelihood that they will text you back quickly, and you can have a conversation, try to pick a time of day where they won’t be busy or distracted.